Parts Integration

According to some Indian traditions, the best way to achieve bliss is to become one with the universe. Bliss is a state that does not have an opposite. For example, love has an opposite emotion - not hate, but fear. Hate can be described as a desperate cry for love, fear can lead to pushing others away, love brings others closer. As more and more things happen us during life, our psyche starts to split in different ways, not like split personalities, but rather different aspects of our psyche. For example, have you ever found yourself having an internal conversation similar to the following: "Ah, go on, have that bar of chocolate, indulge yourself". And another internal voice "No chocolate - its fattening". There may even be an internal debate, usually ending in the chocolate being eaten, and probably a mixture of satisfaction and slight guilt. When parts split from our psyche, they are usually the basis for internal conflict, which uses up energy which could be used more productively. It's like using up energy in an internal tug of war, instead of using both teams to pull the rope together and move somewhere. There are different ways of working with parts to achieve harmony. One way is to negotiate with the parts, find out their purpose, and find common ground, and then find more productive ways for the parts to achieve their positive purpose. For example, there may be a part that wants to eat food all the time, when the purpose is investigated, it might be for comfort, and then ways can be found for the part to achieve the purpose of comfort in a healthier way. Another way to work with parts is called parts integration. This assumes that when a part separated from the complete whole, it's opposite also separated. When those opposite parts realise that they actually have the same highest intention, they automatically reintegrate with the complete whole, and if those parts have been responsible for destructive behaviour for a long time, the parts integration can be very profound.

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How does our brain work?

It may surprise you that how the brain works won't be explained in a blog, but perhaps a couple of interesting things can be considered. We have two hemispheres to our brains, a left hemisphere and a right hemisphere. The left hemisphere largely controls the right hand side of our bodies, and roughly corresponds to our conscious mind, and controls rational thought, logic, lists, analysis, linearity, letters, numbers, seeing details. The right hemisphere largely controls the left hand side of our bodies, and roughly corresponds to our subconscious mind. It controls imagination, symbolism, dreaming, flashes of intuition, pictures, and tends to see the world as a whole without the details.

There are deeper levels of brain function, our "reptilian brain", which controls survival instincts, our "mammalian brain", which controls our emotions, and our cognitive brain which controls our thinking. Of course, we have a huge network of nerves and glands for mind body communication, and energy flow.

Our subconscious minds handle vast amounts of information every second, all the sensations, all the sights, sounds, feelings, smells, tastes, where we are in relation to everything around us. It handles all the thoughts and memories we are having also, which also fire off the sensory parts of our brain. Our subconscious minds constantly evaluate our environment, if you were to compare the volume of information bombarding us to water flow, it is like a the volume of water the Niagara falls provide every second. Our conscious minds can handle between five and nine units of information at a time, e.g how long is a phone number, and how easy is it to hold a phone number in your mind before you memorise it?

Our subconscious minds then have the job of sorting through this Niagara falls flow of information, and provide our conscious minds with a flow of information equivalent to the flow from a tap. However, it usually provides us with the most important information that is relevant at the time. For example what is the correct meaning and context of a word (whenever you become aware of a word, your subconscious has to fire off all the associations it has with that word, and provide your conscious mind with the correct meaning based on context and comparision). Even if you are deep in conversation, and ignoring everything else around you, if your subconscious was to notice a tiger, it would immediately bring it to your attention by firing off your fight/flight response.

Your fight/flight response works without emotions. Have you have ever experienced an emergency situation where you acted coolly and calmly, and after the situation had been resolved, then the emotions e.g. fear, anger kicked in? The emotions are secondary responses to the action required from flight or flight and are there for the purpose of teaching you responses to similar situations. However, what can happen is that an inappropriate emotion can get associated with an event that is actually safe, but which your subconscious has labelled as an event that is dangerous. This is an important survival mechanism for a simple world that is full of dangers, and sometimes does not serve us well in a safer but much more complex world. It is the cause of PTSD, where fear and/or anger can serve well for survival in a war situation, but are not at all useful when back in peacetime.

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Under Your Control

What you can control is under your control, and what is not under your control cannot be helped. Imagine spending huge amounts of mental energy trying to control the weather, and then feeling great when its sunny, and blaming yourself and feeling stressed when it rains. Sometimes it can be comforting to know that stuff happens, and it happens for a reason. After the great depression, banking regulations were tightened up dramatically. The law can be an ass sometimes, but if there are no laws, there would be chaos. For example, everybody more or less follows the laws of their native language. If everybody made up their own language, our communication would not be very effective! Bank regulation laws that were enforced could have prevented or at least hugely reduced the current economic pit. The pit is a lot shallower and easier to fill in than the pit Ireland was in during the great famine, yet even that pit was filled in eventually. We have control over the things we can control, and it is important to separate them from the things out of our control. We now have the opportunity to develop and build skills that we would never have gained when the hosepipe of easily available finance was spraying us all.

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